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REPLACEABLE OR NOT?

 Everyone's replaceable? 

See, that's the thing. Some people just aren't. 

And it's a realization that only comes to light after the novelty of a new interaction wears off. 

And that doesn't mean you're putting them on a pedestal or clinging to a toxic ideal. 

And it certainly doesn't mean life doesn't or cannot go on after them. 

But there is something about some people we meet that is so incredibly special to us and by devaluing them we also devalue what we had. 

You may meet a person that just has something so unique about them: the way they are, the way their minds work. The way they see the world. 

And it doesn't mean you won't find other amazing people whom you get along with. 

But it could just be that one person who touches your soul on a molecular level. 

Their combination of traits were compatible with yours and they made you feel at home. 

It's okay to admit that some people are irreplaceable. 

It’s ok to admit that you have lost a part of you✍ 

- Lord Vito

#THE-M-EFFECT


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